More Than a Ring: Planning the Perfect Proposal

More Than a Ring: Planning the Perfect Proposal

The New York City Diamond District is known around the world for its unique energy and stunning jewelry. As a jeweler with over 25 years of experience, I’ve had the privilege of helping so many people find the perfect diamond ring. But over the years, I’ve learned that an engagement isn’t just about the ring—it’s about the moment, the presentation, and the memories you create together.

 

Let me tell you about a recent experience that really drove this home for me.

 

About a year and a half ago, I was standing outside my shop, catching some fresh air, when a photographer named Angela Cappetta stopped by. She had just left a neighboring shop and was out taking photos. We got to talking, and she told me she loves capturing the essence of New York City and its people. She even took a few photos of me.

 

At the time, I instantly realized how talented she was but didn’t think any further since,  I was mostly worried about not embarrassing myself or my family business—it’s not every day you find yourself as the subject of someone’s camera lens! I tried my best to be a good subject, but to be honest, I didn’t give it much thought after that day.

There is actually a tiktok I found on her profile from that day .

Fast forward to today: Angela walked back into my shop, not with her camera this time, but looking for a diamond tennis necklace for herself. She’s been searching for a diamond tennis necklace—something elegant enough for everyday wear but still eye-catching. While we looked at a few options, including a 5-carat version (we agreed 3.75 carats was too small for her taste), Here’s an example of a similar 6-carat necklace and another 3-carat option that’s close to what she’s considering: View Here.

Anyway here is the main point I would like to express . Angela and I got to chatting and that’s when I discovered something incredible: Angela also specializes in photographing wedding proposals. wedding proposals are a big part of what I have being doing for that past 25 years.

 

It’s More Than Just the Ring - Its an Important  moment in your life that passes so quickly.

Angela’s work is absolutely breathtaking. She doesn’t just snap photos of proposals—she captures the raw emotion, the excitement, and the story behind the moment. I’ve worked with a few photographers in the past who offered proposal packages, but her talent stands out like nothing I’ve ever seen.

This got me thinking about how often I tell my clients that the proposal itself is just as important as the ring.

Here’s the truth: you can buy the most stunning diamond in the world, but the way you present it—the way you create the moment—is what makes it unforgettable.

A Few Tips for Your Proposal

1. Plan the Presentation: Think about how you want the moment to feel. Maybe it’s a cozy dinner at home, a scenic park, or a busy NYC street corner. Choose a spot that means something to both of you.

2. Hire a Photographer: Trust me, having someone there to capture the moment is worth it. Candid photos of the proposal, followed by a short photo session, will give you memories to look back on for years to come.

Make It Unforgettable

If you’re planning to propose, don’t just think about the ring—think about the entire experience. And if you’re looking for a photographer to capture it all, I can’t recommend Angela Cappetta enough. Her ability to tell a story through her lens is unmatched. Check out her work at Angela Cappetta Photography

Whether you’re ready to pop the question or just starting to look for the perfect ring, stop by my shop in the NYC Diamond District. Together, we can make your moment truly unforgettable.

Mike Nekta

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